Bland, Thick, & Lumpy OR Death By Low Residue

Lord, have mercy.

I do not like bland food. I mean, I really do not like bland food. My mother discovered my penchant for spicy food when I was only two and I single-handedly ate almost an entire bowl of chile con queso she had made for a party. At age five or six we were eating supper when I noticed the meat was different and asked, "What kind of meat is this?" (It was venison procured by my father.) In a fit of God-only-knows-what-he-was-thinking my father answered, "It's Bambi." According to both my parents I merely blinked my eyes once before pronouncing, "Bambi tastes good," and cleaning off my plate with relish.

When I was pregnant with Boo I ate pretty much anything and everything I wanted. The only food which regularly made me sick was plain, un-spiced chicken breast. For some reason people kept serving this to me under an assumption that I could not eat normal food while pregnant. I ended up throwing it all up every. single. time. Bland food and I do NOT get along.

Fast forward to today, three and half weeks post-op after my latest Fun-Filled Hospital Extravaganza, and I am on a low residue diet.

The makings of a typical low residue meal. Yee haw.

A low residue diet, for those of you who have never had the privilege of experiencing one, is a diet designed to both lessen the frequency and thicken the consistency of one's output. By which I mean this: thicker poop and fewer instances of messing one's self. Yes, it is definitely as fun as it sounds.

The reason I'm on this diet is because I had a pouch advancement on June 26th (they cut loose my J-pouch and pulled it down into my rectum) in order to (hopefully) deal once and for all with the @#!$% fistula I've been fighting for the past three years. This was part one of a two-surgery procedure. (For those keeping score, surgeries 12 and 13.) I then had to wait around in the hospital for two weeks, almost completely incontinent -- yes, that was as much fun as it sounds, too! -- until the second procedure on July 10th. During this procedure the ends of the pouch were trimmed and fully stitched in place. Voila! One exceedingly sore hiney and a LOT of poop to contend with.

So. Here is a list of food & beverage options I get to choose from daily: oatmeal, white rice, potato, white pasta, white bread, decaf tea, water, multi-vitamin juice (one small glass per day), Actimel (also one per day), plain meat, very small amount of cheese, banana, applesauce, and avocado. As a treat I can have a tiny bit of hummus on plain crackers, and later today I might try some beets, as I've been handling the banana, applesauce, and avocado without too many problems. Woo hoo, party time!

For extra excitement, I also get to drink a glass of water mixed with Questran-A three times a day, before each meal. This is a powdered medicine which works in the gut to cut down on the acidity of poop, hence helping to cut down on both urgency and hiney pain. (Do not be fooled: Butt Burn is no laughing matter.) This is a good thing. The yucky thing is that while the powder is completely tasteless, it makes the water thick. And lumpy. Thick, lumpy water three times a day. Yum. Boo & Little Toot have taken to counting how long I can keep from gagging after each glass; so far my record is three seconds.

This combination of bland, thick, & lumpy is slowly getting to me, folks. Fair warning: if you don't see me for a while, check the corners to see if I'm sitting in one, quietly sobbing while trying to down a glass of Questran-A enriched water. If I'm not there or, of course, in the bathroom, then I am afraid I might have wasted away. Please make sure my tombstone is engraved with the following: "Here lies Feisty. She survived Ulcerative Colitis, fistulas, 13 surgeries, and innumerable side effects but was finally finished off by Gastronomic Boredom. May she rest in peace and enjoy that Great Baked Brie in the Sky."

Umbrellas & Butt Wipes

Here's the current lay of the land:

• Fistula repair definitively failed; another surgery needed.
• Must choose between a muscle graft (MAJOR surgery) and a permanent ileo (major surgery).
• Being sent to an IBD surgical specialist for his opinion on which procedure would be better; referral letter was lost (grrrrr!!!!!!) so appointment isn't until April 15.
• Which means surgery won't be until May. With, depending upon the procedure, a 3 to 12 month recovery period.
• And we're moving in July.
• In the meantime, the fistula is acting up more than it has in about a year, causing much discomfort, some pain, and a blasted evil yeast infection. (@#$!@%)
• The stoma is now tipped flush with my abdominal wall, which means I resemble raw hamburger where it empties. If the surgery isn't until May, I will need a surgical stoma revision in the next few weeks.
• Abdominal & stoma pain have been plaguing me for a week; the symptoms are beginning to look like adhesions... Which also require a surgical fix.

So yesterday was one of "those" days. Tears, frustration, hopelessness. I sent a whiny missive to a friend who also fights with a chronic illness and used a particularly colourful phrase to describe what I felt like I was dealing with. She responded by saying, "I'll bring the umbrella and butt wipes."

I prefer unscented flushables, but chamomile or aloe will also work!

This, my friends, is what is needed on "those" days: a friend who doesn't roll their eyes, get grossed out, tell you to "just deal with it", or smile tightly. Instead, what is needed is someone with a bit of sass, who understands, is empathetic, but doesn't let you wallow in self-pity either. It's a gift, this ability. And these friends are a HUGE blessing.

Today I feel much better, physically and mentally. Here's what I'm doing to continue to fight:

• Writing this.
• Doing laundry (love the fresh smell).
• Making garlic knots. Because I want to.
• Sitting in the sun at some point for 10-15 minutes.
• Plowing ahead with some things I need/want to get done around the house.
• Counting each little bit I get done as a success.
• Writing a letter to a friend who really needs a pick-me-up.
• Praying for those who are in so much more need than me.
• Goofing around with Boo & Little Toot.
• Right now, after I post this, I think I might have another cup of tea and a scone.

And maybe, just maybe, I won't need the umbrella today. (I always need the butt wipes!)

Healing, Part Two (In 55 Easy Steps)

On October 31st I had a fistula repair performed. In the bad news category, it was my third attempted fistula repair. In the good news category, it turned out to be a new fistula, which means the two repairs on my original fistula worked. In the bad news category, this means I have a new fistula. In the further bad news category, the fistula drainage didn't stop enough to allow proper healing to the repair site, so on November 22nd I had another temporary stoma (my fourth) installed. In the good news category, the surgery went very well and there were no adhesions involved, so the surgeon is extremely hopeful about the outcome.

Refer to #31 and see how many you can identify.

Life is full of poop. Sometimes it's more, sometimes it's less, but the fact is that all of us have to deal with a certain level of both metaphorical and literal poop. And the sooner we learn to do that without whining or running away or collapsing, the better off we are.

I apologize in advance for any unpleasant imagery this post puts in your head. On the other hand, hey, you're here under your own volition! Gross or not, this is my reality. And if your sense of humour is slightly twisted, it is kind of funny...  Afterwards. So, for those of you silly bored reckless brave enough to continue, I offer you:

How to Change a Stoma Appliance in 55 Easy Steps

1. Wake up repeatedly during the night and check the base of the stoma bag to make sure it is still securely fastened to your skin.
2. Finally fall asleep soundly around 4:30.
3. Awake with a start at 7:05 to find that yes, you have sprung a leak.
4. Cuss.
5. Get out of bed. As you are still only 10 days post-op and cannot sit up normally, this involves rolling onto your right side, causing more leakage, and pushing yourself up to a sitting position.
6. Bite your lip and sigh. Pledge that you will not cuss your way through this entire procedure.
7. Stand up. Check bedding and execute small happy dance at the knowledge that you caught the leak before it soaked through all the bedding & the waterproof pad you now sleep on, which means you do not have to strip the bed at this immediate moment.
8. Realize that your little happy dance caused the stoma to become active. ("Become active" is a euphemism for "spew poop".)
9. Cuss as you grab a pile of compresses to cover the leak. Grab robe.
10. Run (well, okay, shuffle-jog) to the bathroom.
11. Empty the clean laundry out of the washing machine. Take off your pajamas, one-handed (remember the other is holding bandages to the leak), and throw them straight into the washing machine.
12. Sit on toilet. Empty stoma bag into toilet. Ask yourself again why you ate so many green onions at supper the day before??!? Gingerly peel the wax base of the stoma appliance off your skin and stitches/steri-strips.
13. Cover stoma with toilet paper to prevent further leakage incidents. Throw everything in the garbage can. Make mental note that garbage must be emptied ASAP.
14. Hop in shower.
15. Begin washing.
16. Begin relaxing in the warm water.
17. Watch in amazement as your stoma becomes active (see #8 above) and does a very admirable imitation of a sprinkler head. Specifically, the impact rotor type.
18. Cuss.
19. Wash shower walls and tub.
20. Finish showering.
21. Dry off.
22. Grab toilet paper to cover stoma 2 seconds too late.
23. Grumble and moan, remembering previous pledge not to cuss through the entire exercise.
24. Clean up. Place bathmat in washing machine.
25. Throw on robe.
26. Debate where to put on new appliance. In bathroom? Feel too weak to stand for another possible 20 minutes and rule out lying on cold floor. In your bedroom? Not ideal, as DH is still sleeping and you'd rather not wake him up for a variety of reasons, including embarrassment/frustration about the leak.
27. Peek out bathroom door, spy that Little Toot is up and her bed is free. Score!
28. Shuffle to bedroom, holding TP on stoma and robe (more or less) secure with one hand. Gather up as many supplies as can in the other. Shuffle to Little Toot's bedroom and dump supplies.
29. Repeat.
30. Repeat.
31. Lay out supplies on bed: two towels covering bed, compresses, adhesive-remover wipes, stoma appliance base, appliance paste, stoma powder, medical scissors, half-moon plasters, stoma appliance bag, small medical waste bag, and hairdryer all within reach.
32. Feel around blindly under Little Toot's bed for the extension cord you know is there. Wonder what else is under there. Make mental note to have Little Toot clean out from under her bed ASAP.
33. Find power strip, plug in hairdryer.
34. Lie down.
35. Using medical scissors, cut a 30-mm hole in the wax stoma appliance base and place base under your bum to warm up and become more pliable. Wonder who first used this technique.
36. Wipe stoma area down using adhesive-remover wipes. Wonder why they are made so thin. Discard used wipes.
37. Slowly dry stitches/steri-strips and stoma area with hairdryer on low setting. Wonder how many of your friends and acquaintances are going to blow-dry their abdomens today.
38. Grab compresses to mop up small squirt. Re-blow-dry area. Proactively place pile of compresses on top of stoma.
39. Congratulate self for not cussing over squirt incident. Make mental note to add squirted-upon robe to the load in the washing machine.
40. Grope around and find stoma powder; sprinkle a liberal layer around base of stoma; wipe off excess. Discard used compresses.
41. Pray fervently for no more activity from the $%#@! stoma.
42. Retrieve appliance base. Apply stoma paste around edge of hold in the middle.
43. Begin to peel off the base backing so base can be placed on skin; realize that you have applied the paste to the wrong side of the hole.
44. Cuss.
45. Clean off base as best you can. Apply paste to the proper side. Discard used compresses. Apply base to skin, fitting base hole snuggly around stoma. Wonder who spends their time designing stoma appliances.
46. Find stoma appliance bag; snap securely to base and press ring to make sure the seal is tight.
47. Place hand over stoma/bag/base to continue keeping the area warm and ensure flexible and strong adhesion.
48. Check clock. Note time is 8:18. Relax back on pillows, glad to have the process mostly done. Still time to eat and brush teeth before the home care nurse arrives at 9:00.
49. Decide that maybe the 10 minutes of lying quietly and heating the stoma appliance with your hand could be used for some prayer and reflection.
50. Hear the doorbell ring and Bubba bark at 8:20. Listen frantically as Boo answers the door; stink, the nurse is here 40 minutes early!
51. Cuss. But only a little.
52. Spend 10 minutes with the nurse, who inspects the change job closely. Try not to breathe in her face (see #48).
53. Express gratitude as the nurse helps apply the half-moon plaster, which you had forgotten about. Wonder how many people had to deal with improper base placement over stitches before they were invented.
54. Bid adieu to the nurse, get up, get dressed, clean up supplies. Empty garbage in bathroom. Toss robe in laundry and start load. Cook & eat breakfast. Deliberate upon an appropriate penance for the all the cussing. Con Resident Domestic Goddess (aka Mom) into changing and laundering sheets after DH gets up.
55. Begin obsessively checking for leaks every hour on the hour....

The hard work of healing is not for the faint of heart. Or for those lacking a Junior High level sense of humour.

"becoming active"

Your turn: what physical or metaphorical steps do you need to take to slog through the poop in your life at the moment?

If at first you don't succeed....

...try, try again.

Not that I am particularly good at that. Actually, I'm pretty miserable at it. But here I am, deciding that I need the practice, deciding that I will not let stinky news get me down. With all the poop in my life, after all, I'm pretty used to stinky things.

Surgery number 10 is coming up. I asked for dancing girls or a solid gold bed -- some sort of compensation -- but they apparently won't be forthcoming. What will be forthcoming is another mesh repair for my #@!%&^ fistula. A rectovaginal fistula, which you can read more about here. (Be forewarned, it's gross.) This will be my third attempt at a repair, and my last chance with a "simple" repair; the next step is a muscle graft which, for a variety of reasons, is NOT what I want to do.

Essential tool for trying again.

To be frank, I'm scared. Not of the surgery itself, which I have already been through once, and not about the skill level of the people performing the surgery, because I know them and trust them. Just, because. Because fistulas are notoriously difficult to repair, because I've already had three surgeries associated with this fistula and it is still here, because no surgery is ever a walk in the park. Because I am so damn tired of all of this.

And yet...

And yet, the minute I stop trying is the minute I might as well cash it all in and I am assuredly NOT ready to do that. Not in the least. Besides, who would listen to all of Jasper's bad jokes? Who would ride Little Toot and Boo about chores? Who would make sure that Bubba has a fresh supply of rubber duckies?

So I'm trying again. In so many different areas, I'm trying again.

And, just because we can all use more thrash Praise & Worship in our lives:

TRY AGAIN

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YOU MAKE ME WANT TO TRY AGAIN.

I THINK IT'S SOMETHING I CAN FINALLY UNDERSTAND. YOUR LOVE IS LIKE THE OCEAN, TURN MY PAIN INTO THE SAND.

I THINK IT'S SOMETHING THAT I CAN KNOW. YOUR LOVE IS LIKE THE SUNSHINE AND MY TROUBLE'S LIKE THE SNOW.

I THINK IT'S SOMETHING FINALLY TAKING A HOLD. OH YOUR LOVE IS LIKE THE FIRE AND MY HURT IS LIKE THE COLD.

I THINK IT'S SOMETHING FINALLY LEAVING A MARK. OH YOUR LOVE IS LIKE THE LIGHTNESS AND MY HEART IS LIKE THE DARK.

Ch-ch-ch-changes

For some reason my mother and my husband's cousin think we need a new toaster.  I don't see it, personally.  Sure, there are a few superficial dings on the poor thing, but it still works!  Mostly.  You just have to jiggle the browning knob in the right direction and keep an eye on your bread in process -- don't flip for longer than 20 seconds -- and it's all fine.  Even Little Toot has the process mastered.  So why should we get a new one?

Our much-maligned toaster

This one has character, and history.  Not an incredibly long history, but history nonetheless.  It was purchased in haste about six days after arriving in the Netherlands, as Jasper ran through the store grabbing the absolute essentials.  This was two days after I was admitted to the hospital for emergency surgery (my fifth) and a day after finding out our belongings were being held hostage in Rotterdam due to a paperwork problem.  The many white spaces are from me scrubbing the blasted thing to rid it of the sticky feeling the plastic casing seems to attract; the deep gash is from my mother moving a hot pat too close to it during one of my hospital stays, and the flame-shaped mark is from one of the university students who stayed here while we were in Barcelona; she turned the gas up high in the burner next to the toaster.

Like I said, it has character.

But mostly I'm used to it.  I know its tricks, know how to treat it, know what to do with it.  It might be a pain, but it's MY pain and I can deal with it.  Who knows what a new, pretty, proper toaster might do with our bread?

Unfortunately, fate has dealt us a cruel blow.  K, the above-mentioned cousin, and her husband and beautiful son are moving from Belgium -- where they have lived a mere two hours away from us for the past three years -- back to Canada.  We're sad about them leaving, sure, but the real issue is that K has bequeathed her new, pretty, proper toaster on us.

What am I supposed to do with this?

It's not sticky, won't melt, and actually toasts bread.  What the heck am I supposed to do with it???

Change is hard, even when it is good, or even needed.  Some of us are better at rolling with the punches, taking what comes our way.  Others of us need time to adjust.  And sometimes, whether we want the change or not, whether we're easy-going or uptight, change is just downright hard.

Over the past couple of weeks I have been asked several times how I'm feeling, how the latest surgery turned out, what I'm able to eat now, what the next step is.  I made no secret going into this surgery that I was hoping and praying it would be my last, that I had had enough, that I was ready, willing, and prepared to do whatever need be afterward to be healthy and -- hopefully -- avoid further problems.  Now, on the other side, I have to live up to those words, to that desire, and it means some changes which I'm finding difficult.

The hardest outward change is the exercise.  I've always tried to exercise and be healthy.  At various times in my life I've run, walked, done aerobics, biked.  Most recently I've done Pilates and yoga, a lot of walking and biking, and basically trying to be more active.  Now, however, my internist has informed me that the exhaustion I have been increasingly fighting for the past few years is not "simply" due to illness and stress, although those are obviously major factors in the equation.  She thinks my body has aged too rapidly due to all the surgeries and medications over the past eight years.  In short, my body thinks it is 50 or so, while I, in actuality, just turned 40.  Of primary concern is my bone density, despite the amount of calcium I ingest.  The treatment?  Intensive weigh-training three times a week, in addition to my other exercise, a careful diet, maintenance meds, and so forth.

Yeah.  Um, weight-training.  This is so not how I want to spend a significant chunk of time three days a week.

The harder change, however, is the internal change.  Because, as bizarre as it may sound, I have gotten used to Sickness Mode and even Crisis Mode.  I know what to do, how to make myself rest, how to not plan too far ahead (and not from a healthier "be here now" perspective, either!).  I know how not to get too excited, how to be careful, how to monitor every tiny change in my appetite, sleep, output (that means poop, people), mood, hormones, emotions.  I know the ups and downs of PTSD intimately.  And as much as I want out of these modes, as much as I want my life back -- or, dare I hope for it? -- even a better life, this way of thinking about things, this way of life, has been "normal" for so long that I am not even sure I know how to change it, or if I can -- or if I even totally want to.

Of course I want to.  It's just that I've gotten used to the stickiness, gashes, and melted spots.   I'm used to it.  I know its tricks, know how to treat it, know what to do with it.  It might be a pain, but it's MY pain and I can deal with it.  Who knows what a different life might bring?

Wait, I got a bit confused there.  Was I talking about my health or my toaster?

Either way, change is happening.  And change is, in this case, not only wanted but needed.

So here's to change: may it bring health, may it reside in strength, may it not hurt too, too much, and may it not forget the lessons I have learned and benefits I have gained.  To change!

What internal barriers to needed change are you harboring?

Back to Life...

...back to reality.  Ah, where would we be without bad 80's lyrics?

I'm just two days home from a surprise whirlwind trip to Barcelona -- my Mother's Day gift this year, combined with a late 40th birthday and postponed 15th anniversary, plus a little "Thank God all the surgeries are over....  We hope!"  It was glorious.

Overlooking Barcelona from Parc Guell

 Blessed, yes I am.  With two fabulous university students who cared for Boo, Little Toot, & Bubba, for friends who helped out with random dog and childcare, for a DH who decided enough was enough and we needed some time away.  Who realizes that it is important to mark the Big Things; and when important birthday and anniversary celebrations (for instance) have to be postponed due to a seemingly unending string of illness and surgeries, understands that sometimes the Big Things are stuff like waking up in the morning, breathing, laughing, walking.

Today I'm realizing that all over again.  Because the "reality" part of life is sinking in again: weeds in the garden, childhood meltdowns, an ever-growing to do list, glue that will NEVER come out of the %$@! bottle properly especially when I really need to get these stupid wonderful birthday party invitations ready for the morning.

I miss the giant fish heads.  At least I knew where I stood with them.  (Away.  I definitely stood away from them.)

Fish heads, fish heads; roly-poly fish heads...

Pitiful, isn't it?  Such trivial, every day things.  But when other, harder things are piled on top of them, even these little things grow to monster proportions and threaten to become overwhelming.  Things like someone dear to me undergoing serious medical testing.  Things like depression, a sobbing child, memory loss, a niggling pain a little too close to the last surgical scar for comfort.  Right in the middle of what needed to be a pretty busy day, I shut down.  I sat down and just... sat.  I felt overwhelmed, I was anxious, I berated myself for being lazy, and then I realized the truth of the matter.  I'm afraid.

I'm afraid I won't be able to "handle it", to keep up without being sick.  I'm afraid things that I've lost (like chunks of memory) won't come back and that some things that I've gained (like adhesions) won't go away.  I'm worried I won't be able to keep up the new physio & exercise routine the doctors have set for me.  (Seriously, people, do I look like someone who enjoys lifting weights?)  I'm afraid I just won't be able to do "it".  Whatever "it" is.

And then Bubba sat on my feet, demanding a walk.  And I remembered a little card given to me by a nun many, many years ago when I was having a different kind of fear and worry attack.  The card read, "Courage is fear which has said its prayers."  So I said a little prayer, had a little lunch, took a little walk, ate a little chocolate, and looked at my toes.  My pretty Barcelona-pedicured toes.  They make me smile.

Pretty piggies

Life might indeed be pain, Princess, but life is also support and love and smiling.  Life is having a good cry and a good friend to hand you tissues.  Life is tough, but there are ways to soften it.  And I can either sit around on my ass and feel sorry for myself and let everything crowd in, or I can get up and fight back.  I choose to fight back.  Through prayers, through exercise (grumble though I might!), through helping someone else with their lousy day, through hugging my kids.

As long as it doesn't ruin my pedicure.  Because I quite like my pretty toes.

How do you fight back in the midst of a stinky day?

The Things Come to Town

If you haven't ever checked out Ironic Mom, you really should go do that now.  It's one of my daily regulars, a site that helps keep me sane by assuring me that I'm not the only one living La Vida Loca.  (Try starting with two of my favourite posts: the one about stripper Barbie and the one about being sexy.)  Recently Ironic Mom's little Things (the alter egos of her twins, William/Thing 1 & Vivian/Thing 2) stopped by as part of their whirlwind world tour, and we treated them to some typical aspects of life here in the Netherlands.  Hopefully we didn't traumatize them too much, but I wouldn't bet on it...

The Things arrived the evening before my scheduled stoma reversal, so they were tucked into bed early to rest up for the big op the next day.  Next morning they accompanied me to the hospital and were ushered into the spacious 4-bed room I would be sharing with various and sundry noises and smells people. They were thrilled with the view out the window, especially catching a glimpse of Fort SintPieter, which I assured them we could visit after the ordeal was over.

We then unpacked, loading up the bedside table with post-op essentials such as lip balm, tissues, good books, and trashy magazines.  The Things happily settled into the bed, much agog with my stories of tea served in real china, staff people who tend the gift bouquets brought in, and proper duvets to sleep under.

They were less than thrilled, however, when the nurse came with the gown to change into as they realized that my warning "if the Dutch are comfortable with nudity in the situation they think you are as well" was all too true.  They quickly devised a scheme to retain their modesty:

The amount of laughter and ribald comments which greeted them soon changed their minds.  They decided "when in the Netherlands, do as the Dutch" was a good policy, combined with a bit of "see no evil":

After this happy compromise we settled down to wait.  And wait.  And wait.  When the transport came to take me down, they blew kisses and wished me well, looking forward to some uninterrupted channel surfing.  When I was brought back up not too much later in a considerably foul mood they were irritated along with me that the op had been bumped.  We threw our stuff into our bag, went home, and drowned our sorrows in chocolate.

Next day we headed over to the dog park at Sint Pieter's.  The Things were a bit worried by the chill wind and the signs of rain in the sky and asked to stay in the car.  We had to be very strict and Dutch with them, saying, "Jullie zijn niet van zuiker gemaakt!"  (You are not made of sugar!)

At first they hitched a ride along with Boo.

But after a bit, seeing how much fun everyone was having running around, they chose to ride along with Bubba.

They had a grand old time, and got to see Fort SintPieter (relatively modern at 1701) up close and personal along with Boo, Bubba, and F.

Our next big outing was to Efteling, the Dutch amusement park which inspired Disney Land.  The Things happily trucked along with Boo and Little Toot, oohing and ahhing at all the rides.

We hoped a fast ride on the wooden roller coaster Joris en de Draak ("Joris and the Dragon") would fluff out their hair but, alas and alack, it didn't.  It was a lot of fun anyway!

They greatly enjoyed wandering the beautifully landscaped grounds; what could be more Dutch than tulips and windmills?

All the walking and screaming on rides gave the Things quite an appetite, so we stopped off for a snack of fritjes (french fries) before leaving.

Thing 2 preferred the curry ketchup, but Thing 1 was partial to the mayonaise (pronounced mah-o-naze-uh).

A few days later was Queen's Day, a nationwide party in honor of Queen Beatrix.  The Things jumped right into the spirit, cross-dressing up (always guaranteeing a laugh in the Netherlands) in orange for the big party in downtown Maastricht.

Like all good Dutch citizens, we bicycled downtown.

We joined right into the throngs of people laughing, dancing, selling things, performing, chatting.  The Things' favourite was the drum band.

We were also able to share the spectacular view of the Maas, with stunning new pedestrian bridge and the older drawbridge in the background:

The Helpoort ("Hell Gate", 13th century), the oldest city gate in the Netherlands, was a big hit as well:

All this Dutch-ness was fun, but a bit overwhelming.  The Things began to feel homesick, so that evening we gave them our latest copy of Our Canada to read and played some Tragically Hip for them to listen to:

The next adventure was my operation, which miraculously took place as scheduled this time around.  The Things were very comforting in their post-op sympathy, joining me with bandages, tea, and warm compresses:

On their last full day with us the weather was gorgeous so we decided to go on a nice country wandeling (walk).  We went to the top of one of the local plateaus (this is the southern Netherlands!) to check out the wildflowers in bloom.

The Things recognized Queen Anne's Lace from back in Canada right away and had a little frolic in the Forget-Me-Nots as well:

Check out that amazing blue!  (Oh, and the flowers are also pretty...)  Next was hunting up native wild orchids which grow here in Limburg.  The Things were thrilled to find two varieties, a pale lilac orchid:

and a brighter fushia-purple one:

We admired the views from top of the plateau together, with the city of Maastricht in the distance:

Then it was time to head home, for our last meal together.  We made it a celebration and served up a traditional Dutch springtime supper: white asparagus and boiled potatoes with a creamy butter sauce, ham, boiled eggs, and applesauce.  The Things loved the "Dutch White Supper" as Boo & Little Toot call it.

All in all, it was a fun visit and a very pleasant distraction for me through the process of this last surgery.

The Things are now off on their next adventure, but you can continue to follow them along via the Ironic Mom website.  Het was een leuk tijd, Thing 1 en Thing 2; hartelijk bedankt en tot ziens!